Simple Instruction - 1 Timothy 3

Paul’s love for this church and affection for Timothy are the reasons such a letter was written. Coupling today’s reading with yesterday’s, we see that Paul wanted to outline “best practices” for God’s church….which is really the front door to faith for so many people.
I think about today at ANC….as we try to live incarnationally and intentionally among friends and neighbors….we must take on these same aspects, not with rigid legalism, but embrace a good life so that we, by our mere presence represent Christ, not only the salvation but also the freedom.
Simple instruction really….

Men....Love God.
Be men of character and integrity
Let your yes be yes, your no be know
Have your house in order
Provide for your family
Don't be a womanizer
Respect your wife (in her presence and out)
Don't be a drunk (or drink too much)

Ladies.....Love God
Don’t be malicious gossips.
Don't tear others down under the auspices of a 'prayer request'
Respect and love your husband

In the NTT (New Tray Translation) this goes something like this.....Guys, dont be douchebags...Ladies....be nice. There may other instruction both implied or taught....but I think it is more the intent (of the law) than the letter (of the law). I have been at a church where we got so hung up in the letter of the law, we were reduced to legalistic ineffective zealots. Let's not do that.